I went into this fabulous store the other day. In casual chit chat with the salesperson, I mentioned my profession. After wandering about a bit, he came to tell me they were hiring. In my excitment, I got the application and ran out the door without asking ANY questions about the job. I'm pretty sure that any job I would want at this point in my life does not require an application, but then again, I know absolutely nothing about the job besides it's title. And it's title is a bit vague.
I told my mom about it, and her main thing was that the economy is going downhill fast, and the company I am currently with is large and stable enough to withstand it. The other isn't tiny, but more likely to take a hit in a troubled economy. And, she said, my current job pays really well, according to her.
I feel like a fool going back in there to find out what the job actually is like. Yet I absolutely dread going to my current job everyday. At some point during the day I am either so bored, I can't focus for 30 seconds, or so frusterated, I'm crying in the bathroom.
So, my main question floating around in my head is, what if this other job, that I know nothing about, is some grand oppurtunity. One of those, you never know until you try things. My main regrets in life involve not getting out there and going for something I really wanted. I don't want this to be another one of those. Yet, with the current economy, is it worth the risk, or do I just wait for the "next" knock at my door?
It's a New Day.
15 years ago
2 comments:
I think that it would be a great opportunity for you to explore other career opportunities because, quite frankly, at this point in your lifetime, you can afford to. :) I think that you took a leap of faith with this new job and it's not really what you expected it to be and that's disappointing to you. Should you find out more about the position? Yes, definitely. You should always keep your eye out for opportunities. Maybe it's not even what you are looking for! You never know.. and at this point, it's safe to say that you need a bit more soul-searching. Pray about it.. talk to your close counsel.. think about it.. but make sure the opportunity exists before stressing out about it so much!
"Things works out in the end.. and if it doesn't work out.. it's not the end. :)" Yes, the quote includes the emoticon. ;P
Your boyfriend has lots of wisdom. I totally agree with his points.
If you hate your current job, yes, leave it as soon as another seemingly better opportunity arises. You will not be happy until you leave a place that drains life/happiness out of you. Even if you're good at this job and get paid a satisfied amount, you'll always wonder if there is something more meaningful you can do someplace else.
After law school, I KNEW I didn't want to be a lawyer - yet due to parental pressure, I took the California bar exam twice and failed twice. The entire process (a whole year) was very discouraging. In the end, I did what I wanted to do - turn my back on law and pursue something else. Yes, I took a major salary cut compared to lawyers, but my passions led me to my current position and I'm proud to say I found my career for life.
It takes courage to take risks. The great news is that while we're still young, have no dependents (children, for example), and are able to learn something entirely new, we can risk taking a path not traveled before. As stressful as this process is, these are exciting times. I'll be praying for you.
Oh, and btw, I still think you and Daryn should move to California. Job opportunities are more abundant here, after all. =P
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